Sometimes we aren't lucky enough to grow up with parents that nurture. Sometimes we have to parent ourselves. This might make figuring out your place in the world more tiresome, confusing and overwhelming. You may view the world through a tainted lens. So - you must parent yourself. Forgive your parents for not being the role models you deserved. Tell yourself each day, you're doing the best you can. You will love yourself when you understand that love has always existed in you. You are whole - were never broken. It cannot and will not be found externally. Be your own parent because you deserve it.